Monday, December 3, 2007

Sick Kids and the Sick Bed

I hate Monday mornings. Even though I don't have a job to go to, I still have to go to bed earlier Sunday nights and get up early to get the kids ready for school. Last night I was up late on the computer, as usual, so when my 14 year old came in my room at 6:15 and said she was so tired and had a headache, I secretly was happy to be able to go back to sleep for another hour. "That's why I hate sleepovers!", I told her. "You never get enough sleep! You're not going to have another one for a very long time." I let her go back to sleep for 2 more hours and decided to just take her to school late. Yes, I still have to get up with her. I want to make sure her clothes match good enough, she doesn't forget anything, her hair is neat, and make sure she gets out the door in time to catch the bus.

At 7:15 my 11 year old walked my room. "Mom, I feel like I'm going to throw up." "Well, get in the bathroom then!" He didn't throw up, but did not feel well. At 7:50 I woke up my 7 year old for school. "Time to get up." "OK. Hey, why is (11 year old) still here?" "He doesn't feel well." Suddenly 7 year old, AKA the spirited child who REALLY hates school says, "Mom, I don't feel well either." "Well, you still have to go to school." My 7 year old hates going to school SO much, so I like to wake him up early enough, so that he has a little free time for himself, and he doesn't have to rush, and I don't have to yell. Well, with the other kids at home, my whole morning routine was off. He was talking to everyone, slowing himself up. Then when it was time to go he said, "Could you at least take my temperature first?" He can't bear the thought of going to school when everyone else was home. I felt his forehead, "You're fine", then said the words I try NOT to say in the morning, "HURRY UP!".

I got 7 year old and 14 year old off to school. The 11 year old is staying home. That's OK, though. He doesn't miss much school.

When my sister and I were sick when we were kids, we got the treat of sleeping in our parent's room on their couch. My mom could keep an eye on us all night and catch our throw up in "the bucket". After I got married and we moved into our 2nd house , we only had 2 kids and 3 bedrooms. Then we had our 3rd child and we just let the boys share the bigger bedroom. Four years later I found out I was expecting baby #4. Now was the perfect time to put the addition on. I wanted my new bedroom large enough to put a couch in it. One person told us, "Why would you put a couch in your room? That's such a waste!" She never had kids, so she didn't know what it was like watching them all night when they are sick. Our couch is the greatest thing! It serves as the "sick bed", extra living room for watching tv, study room, nap time getaway, and a place to have a discussion with my husband for a couple minutes until the kids find us. I don't know how we ever lived without one!


7 comments:

My Ice Cream Diary said...

I once had a bedroom big enough for a love seat and I miss it so much. It was so nice for hubby and I to be able to sit and talk and snuggle, without being in the middle of the living area. And it was a nice place to sit when nursing late at night.

Valarie said...

Sounds like a great idea to me. I would love it if my bedroom was big enough to fit a loveseat in there. Well, I think I probably could fit one in, but then we would have to climb up and over it everytime we wanted to go to the bathroom.

suchsimplepleasures said...

i hope everyone feels better...soon! when i was little and home sick...i had to stay in my room because my mom is a germ-phobic. i let my kids go wherever they want in the house...just, not in my bed!
as for my blog and the comment problem...i have been told by some that it isn't loading so well but nothing about comments. maybe i need to remove some of those widgets? i don't know...i'm so dumb when it comes to computers and figuring out stuff with them!
take care and don't get sick!

Mango Marie said...

OOOHHH, what a way to start a week! Hope everyone is feeling better soon.

Love the idea of a couch in the bedroom. Great, now I'm going to have to figure out how to make it work in our bedroom. Just what I needed...another project!

Take care...

Kitty said...

I had one child off school for 3 days last week - today the other has gone down with the same virus. He was in bed with me all night, coughing and sneezing. A seat in the bedroom would be such a treat. :-) x

Tina said...

I hope everyone is feeling better today. The couch sounds like a good idea. Hopefully we'll have the room one day.

suburbancorrespondent said...

What a great idea!